Jen Boecher was informed of Rishi Singh’s behavior in the most recent episode of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.
His messages to Randi, her confidante, were of little importance to him. He was perplexed as to why Jen had brought it up.
Rishi made the same excuses when he met Jen’s peers for the first time.
However, Jen captured him in the act of telling another lie. When will it end?
As Season 4, Episode 11 began, Jen Boecher was still confronting Rishi Singh while the two of them were wearing towels.
Her friend, Randi, had briefly (and inexpertly) catfished him. Rishi had fallen for it, sending her thirst traps, pictures of flowers, and seemingly wanting to meet up.
Jen opted to hash this out with him instead of just letting it simmer. Could Rishi somehow explain this away?
Rishi viewed the DM as inconsequential, as his nearly-naked thirst trap photo was already publicly accessible.
Obviously, many individuals send direct messages to others with more significance than they would publicly post.
At the very least, you desire someone’s undivided focus. Why would Rishi send her the mind-boggling thirst trap if not for this reason? The image of the blossoms should not be mentioned.
Rishi did offer an explanation, of a sort. He explained to Jen that he realized that he was talking to a friend of hers.
At that point, he claimed, he assumed that she was “pulling his leg.” That it was a prank.
So his flirting back with Randi was a “prank,” also. According to Rishi. And then, he explained, he blocked Randi because he was no longer comfortable with this … joke?
Like many of us, Jen was unsure what to say to Rishi.
Additionally, he seemed to laugh off the whole thing, not taking Jen’s real concerns seriously.
If it makes Jen feel any better, Jen gets horny messages from people all of the time. (Does that make it better?)
Rishi leaves and returns with his phone in an effort to reassure his betrothed. He gives it to Jen so she can view his direct messages.
This represents a shift toward openness. Or it would be if it wasn’t all in Hindustani. Jennifer cannot comprehend Hindi.
As observers, we felt torn. Did Rishi expose his essence (or his phone) to Jen? Or is this a cunning bluff to prove he has nothing to hide? despite the fact that contrary evidence is glaring her in the face?
Rishi has other … news. This time, it’s about what his friend who is also an astrologer told him.
He hasn’t told his family about her being his fiancee but plans to. When? On August 2. At 4 PM precisely.
That Jen is willing to wait this long — it’s been about three years, and August was months away when they filmed this — is truly remarkable. Especially when he’s basing their life on astrology.
Randi and Myra fly out to visit Jen. Those are some seriously good friends to fly that distance to see her and meet Rishi.
They mostly like her apartment. The bathroom, Jen explains, is all a shower (like we’ve seen with Nicole Sherbiny).
Her friends compare the situation to “glamping.” In other words, it only feels like “roughing it” when compared to being home, and it’s comfortable enough.
Up on the roof, Jen brings her friends up to speed. On everything from confronting Rishi to her decision to abstain from sex with him until she’s sure (even though they have boned before).
Myra was pleasantly surprised to hear that Jen actually confronted him. Randi worries that Rishi might be having sex on the side if Jen isn’t getting pushback on the abstinence thing. (Honestly? Maybe he’s just respectful of her boundaries)
Jen also explains the astrological delay in Rishi telling his family. Oh, and his excused for falling for Randi’s catfishing expedition.
They actually meet up with Rishi, who gives Jen’s friends the exact same excuses that he used with Jen.
Points for consistency?
Rishi even goes so far as to repeat the “pulling my leg” phrase. Again, Randi was not pranking him, she was testing him. And he failed.
Randi and Myra also have other questions. And it doesn’t sound like Jen has asked all of them.
Rishi has assured Jen that he did not know until recently that his family was actively searching for a wife for him (during his engagement to her).
He also says they are no longer actively looking for a potential bride.
Then, however, Rishi reveals a secret. At the behest of his family, he encountered a number of potential wives. All during Jen’s engagement.
This completely disproves the notion that Rishi was unaware his family was searching for him.
Jen experiences humiliation and pain. Another “minor” lie has been discovered by her. This time, her companions were present.
Jen rises from the table and exits.
Therefore, Rishi is still present with Randi and Myra.
One can feel the discomfort.